okay. guess this is gonna be a wordy post .. I'm too lazy to upload pictures la.

To Mei Qi :

Love, i define it as giving happiness. In a relationship, perhaps it is trust, faith and honesty between each other. But still, not eveyone fully knows the actual meaning of love. Things change, people change. Changes can just happen overnight. no one will know who the true love is .. In order to find your true love, you have to put your heart into it. Yes, thats obviously why LOVE always ends with broken hearts. It rather contradicting cos no one can play this game well at all even though they have a way of explaining how a good relationship should be. No one can do it. Easier said than done.. In the end, eveyone would end up in a losing game, end up getting hurt and end up being numb. Be it guys or girls, humans are just ugly and want the best for themselves. Like what my friend say, 人都是犯贱的. Everyone has spare tyre behind. You won't be able to stop all this but to live with this fact. You may treat this person as your everything, he/she may say likewise. But how true are their words?

Yes. indeed, love is blind. Thats why there are countless of forgives but can someone ever forget? The answer is NO. Though we always say we forgive, but deep down in our heart, it is still contained somewhere.. Never to be forgotten, isnt it? Because of LOVE, we force ourselves to forget, but when love fades? everthing would start floating up to the surface again. Sometimes, its just the ugly truths we have to face again, that no matter what, HE/SHE is STILL HE/SHE . Everyone has their stupid times in a relationship. But how many times do YOU wanna be stupid? How long do you wanna take to wake up? How many difficult blows do you want to take before waking up? How hard do you want him/her to treat you before you come to a decision of letting go?? HOW LONG?! to think again. If he/she comes back to you, do you think his/her heart is with you? or are they just there physically?
My friend reminded me that everyone spent half their life loving the wrong person.

OKAYS. That was for .... i dont know, perhaps in addition to meiqi's post/replying to meiqi's post. well, its all my stupid view la. so yeah, you can ignore it la (x My weekend was, boring i guess. Went to work yesterday, came home chatted online and played sims3. Slept at like 4plus in the morning. Today woke up went for brunch came home and SIMS3 again. Had nap till like evening and yeah, blogging and chatting now. SO, there goes my BORING weekends ..