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FRIENDS is another really big word I believe in almost everyone's life. Who doesn't have friends. Don't talk about BEST friend yet, just friends. I suppose everyone has. But what about TRUE friends? I believe everyone starts to ponder.
How much can you trust the people around you?
Do you really know what's on their mind?
Do they really care?
Do they judge you?
Do they CHANGE?
Are they really here to STAY?
I got tired trying to figure the answers to this questions. Slowly, I figure out that as you grow older, there is no TRUE friends. They come and go because all of us meet new people. I bet you've received such msgs from your friends who bothers to send it to you.. It has a part which says friendships are gold. They need to polish every once in awhile so that it can continue to shine. Once you stop bothering to polish, it becomes dull." So we have to learn how to maintain a healthy friendship by meeting up and catching up once in awhile no matter how busy you are. But tell me, when you get older and busier, how many of you can accomplish that ?
I believe that friends are ones who do not JUDGE you no matter what because they understand you well enough to know the reasons behind the things you do .. Now about BEST friends. People put off others as their BFFs so easily. But who exactly is your BFF? Doesn't BEST refer to ONE person? Now again, tell me WHAT MAKES SOMEONE YOUR BEST FRIEND? Thats my question to all of you. Doing tings together? Hanging out together most of the time? Being there no matter what? or even to die for your best friend? to WHAT extent?
My sis ever told me, when you go out to working life.. You hardly have true friends. You only have them when you were in secondary school or probably polytechnic. While, I do agree with having true friends in secondary school . Your true friends are the one who goes through thick and thin with you, who wants you to stay in their life.
But still, friends get replaced so easily, thats why this "ship" is so vulnerable that it needs to be "polished" oftenly. I'm already starting to lose faith in friendships to be honest because I see people change so rapidly .. Sometimes, I don't recognize them at all.
Well, I still believe in having best friend but now, I just pick them carefully. I learn how to observe rather to just jump into conclusion because someone who can hurt you badly may not be your enemy but someone who is so close to you, your friend.
do you feel alone (?)
Loveannas,
xoxo
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